A Weekend to Remeber
This weekend has been one of the best weekend's I've had in months, and definitely the best weekend I've had so far in Addis. I decided to take two days off work, buy a plane ticket and head off to the north.... to Lalibela, 2650mtrs above sea level, a place which ranks among the greatest religio-historical sites, not only in Africa but in the Christian world. However, the best thing about this village is the total disregard for its status, here, one has the impression of landing in a time at least seven centuries behind ours.
I climbed mountains amongst eagles, mules and monkeys, saw piles of dead people and skeletons, visited a total of 14 churches, played with the little adorable Ethiopian street children, walked narrow dark underground tunnels, had freezing cold showers, made amazing friends, danced to Ethiopian songs in the traditional way and even got declarations of love from some of the guys!!!
This will be a long one.......
So with a total luggage weight of 60Kgs (50Kgs of books for the poor people - a favour for Frank - 10kgs of personal belongings), the trip started off with the first shock!!! The airplane was a little propeller plane..... 2hours of torture, 2hrs of vibrating suspension in the sky 10,000mtrs above sea level. Even worse than the little plane from Helsinki to Talinn, which was smaller.....
The second shock is the landing.... the plane starts going down.... in the middle of nowhere, not an airport or runway in sight... it gets lower and lower and lower, one of the propellers stop turning, and bum, we're on the ground... phew!! a tarmaked piece of land and a tiny building still in the middle of nowhere!!!!
I jumped on to a bus together with 6 other people and headed off for the 45min drive in the middle of nowhere to the city in Lalibela. I finally arrived at the hotel where i arranged to meet Frank, and I received a nice welcome by Frank and some young Ethiopians from different parts of Ethiopia.... most of whom where from Lalibela. Frank had a whole itinerary planned for me for the next 4 days.... and first was a climb up the mountain of Ashetan, to not only see the church of Ashetan Maryam but also enjoy the scenery 3150mts above sea level!! This was not only it...... some of the way will be done with the help of Mules!!!!!
Now I say it was amazing!!! But then I was dead scared!!! Although it only took us 2 1/2 hours to climb, it was way scarier and way more tiresome than the 4hr climb of Mount Sinai in Egypt!!! Why? The road was way steeper, we were at a much higher altitude which made it sooo hard to breathe, the way was not paved but was full of mud and slippery mossy stones and to top it all up the way was really narrow and the drop was very high!!! The first hour I spent on the poor mule I was very scared.....the mule felt that I was not very steady which in turn make it not steady, and was not the ideal while climbing a steep 1 1/2 mtr path. After an hour of screaming on top of a stumbling mule, I finally got the hang of it and led my dearest Molla (the Mule's name) up the rest of the mountain. The mountain also offered a steep 1mtr path, where we had to get off the mule and climb.....
The view of Lalibela half way through the Ashetan Mountain
Two children living on the mountain, one of them wearing the traditional shepherd's hat. We bought them soft drinks!
The scenery was amazing..... we saw all Lalibela, the beautiful mountains, we passed little villages and also got offered cups of coffees in little tukuls, but after seeing the color of the water which was brown with little twigs in it, I decided that I don't like coffee anymore. It was amazing though to see how in a little tukul of about 6mtrs diameter, a horse, 4 chickens and a family of 9 lived. The kitchen was a little fire in the middle of the room and the house was made out of mud and straw. These people had to climb up and down the mountain to go to school, to get food or work....
A little village in Ashetan
We went into this family's home for coffee, they lived in the house behind, together with a horse and 4 chickens!!!
When we reached the top we were in awe, we not only walked amongst the clouds and surrounded by amazingly big and beautiful eagles but arrived just in time to visit the rock hewn church and see the 12th century priests chanting and praying.....
The day ended with stroll around the primitive and medieval village of Lalibela with one of Frank's boys...
The only place to get a hair cut in the village
A hotel promising a panoramic view
The 'villa' of the village
The only gas station in the village, they scoop the oil out of tanks and poor it into the cars
The first day was over, and I went to sleep to the sound of extremely loud Ethiopian music, aching muscles and excitement for the next day.
The second day also involved climbing mountains..... thank God with the help of a 4W drive instead of a mules. So 2 Maltese, 2 Frenchmen (we met in the hotel) and 5 Ethiopians headed out to Yemrehanna Kristos which is a little church built inside a cave by King Yemrehana Kristos. This, 42Kms out of Lalibela, was about a 5hr walk, and about an hour and a half drive on a dirt road out of the village, and a 20min climb up a mountain even steeper than the previous
We drove through planes of nothingness and little tukul villages, the only traffic was donkeys, cows, bulls, and a broken down truck. On the road we met a lot of locals with donkeys making that 5hr walk to the village of Lalibela as it was market day and their only chance in the week to buy animals and food.
Trying to communicate with the little village children, the only thing they could say was 'Faranji Money'
We visited the church which was a totally hidden treasure, it was built in a cave where the only inhabitants were a 12th century priest, monkeys, bats, fleas which dwelled in the church carpets and piles of dead people. The dead people were apparently pilgrims who found the church there and died there, many of whom were apparently from Egypt. The people decided to leave the skeletons there, as a symbolism of death and one day everyone will end up like that. The other amazing treasure of this church was a massive diamond embedded in the ceiling dating the year 1087. Totally surreal and mystical!!! The lonely planet says that 75% of tourists never make it there - I'm glad I'm part of the 25% well worth the aching muscles and lack of breath.
The church in the cave
One of the Egyptian Pilgrims
The second part of the day was also quite an Ethiopian experience. Earlier during breakfast I got talking to two young Ethiopians from Addis, who invited me to go out with them and their friends that evening. As soon as I got back to their hotel I got invited to their room for a session of Chat, which is a legal stimulant, and consists of chewing leaves at the side of your mouth for hours. Once I'm into getting the full Ethiopian experience, I decided to try, though it did not last long enough for it to effect me, the taste is horrible, and I found it quite hard to chew leaves, talk and eat peanuts at the same time, which apparently the Ethiopians seemed to do very well. Nevertheless I met an amazing group of people, from Addis, Lalibela and Woldia (a town close to Lalibela). We had very interesting conversations, and I got to know more about Ethiopia, Lalibela and its people.
Sunday was my last day in Lalibela, and we left the best for the last. Sunday we visited the 11 rock hewn churches that King Lalibela built 7 centuries ago.
Bet Giyorgis - the most beautiful architecture

Bet Amanuel - Bet means house, so this is the House of Emmanuel
Bet Gabriel-Rufael, really amazing, signifies Heaven and Hell, the deep drop being hell and the church being heaven
The churches were amazing..... they were not built, but chiseled out from the ground. The churches were also linked though dark tunnels and narrow paths in the ground.
The narrow paths linking the churches to eachother
Tunnels linking the churches, if you realise the entrances and most of church windows are designed in the above way, it has 2 meanings.... the axumite period design, as well as symbolising the male erect circumsised organ
A church bell made out of a hand grenade holder
Every church had different architecture and a different story to tell, as well as a priest with a different outfit and a different cross. I also got to meet the bishop of Lalibela, who walked between the churches after a mass. It was amazing to see all the Ethiopians running to him and kissing the cross he had in his hands. Frank gave him a catholic cross he had around his neck to kiss, and Frank kissed his cross. The bishop then turned to me and signaled to me to kiss his cross which I refused to do..... the bishop apparently was not at all happy, and took it as a sign of hostility, so I went next to him and kissed his hand which made everyone laugh probably saying 'Stupid Faranji'.
One of the 12th century Monk showing off the church crosses, the one to the left being the cross of King Lalibela
A cool Priest - wears sunglasses cause of all the tourist flashes!! Quite funny actually
One of the priests guarding St Georges' holy water
The highlight of the day were also the children. I got playing with a little group of children while Frank and his boys were taking photos, 3 out of the 7 children decided to follow us around the churches.
One little 7yr old grabbed my hand and held it all the way..... extremely heart warming. We then took the children to a bar and fed them with cookies, bread and soft drinks, you should see howthe gobbled the food, ate and drank heartily... I couldn't take my eyes off them and tears came into my eyes when I realized that probably this is the best meal they will have in a bit and there are 100s of other kids like them. One of them could speak a little bit of English and we spoke about his school, he wants to become a doctor..... this kid probably doesn't have enough money to finish his secondary school, let alone move out of Lalibela to attend the closest College to study and become a doctor......
I wish I could have fed all the children, but for obvious reasons I couldn't, so I bought loads and loads of sweets and lollipops and gave them to the little children I saw on the street. I know that it isn't really right, and this encourages the children to beg even more, but this village was different, there is not other alternative, no work, no food and no money. Corruption is high and many of the people will never had a chance to change their lives unless someone gets them out of there or helps them. What was also sad was that the villages were full of sacks of wheat of USAID, in the streets and even stacked on donkeys to be taken to the outside villages.
The evening was the perfect end to the holiday. I met up with the Ethiopians again, who had also met up with other young foreigners. So two British, a Maltese, an Italian, an American (who also turned out to be an ex-AIESECer) and about 20 Ethiopians headed off to a local village bar. The night was great, and the people were awesome, loads of beers wine and dancing all night.
The highlight of the night was the faranji dancing to Ethiopian music, we probably made the young villager's night. The Faranjis bought rounds of beers for the bar and laughed and danced all night long.... We also tried teaching them how to dance to European and American Commercial music, but it did not turn out to well, we danced to Teddy Afro's 'Lampa Dina', and Bob Marley's 'Buffalo Soldier', and one Ethiopian also tried impersonating Michael Jackson together with the British, but this ended up in loads of laughter and more beers.
Faranji trying to dance to Ethiopian music in a local bar
Monday I spent the morning chatting to the Ethiopians from Addis, who now turned out to be my first close Ethiopian friends, with promising Addis weekends. It was hard saying bye to Lalibela, the lack of modernization, no banks, no mobile phones, barely any cars and the amazing people. By the end of the 4 days all the village knew about the Maltese in Lalibela, they came to say bye with promises of seeing each other again, though knowing that we probably will never, even the guide who took us around on Sunday came to tell me bye!!!!
The feeling on the plane while flying out of Lalibela was the same feeling of nostalgia and emptiness and well being one feels after a motivational AIESEC conference..... but I also flew back with two new amazing friends...... and a future in Addis to look forward to.
I am loving this country more and more day after day. I don't regret the choice I made. Ethiopia is an undiscovered beauty, and I'm glad I've been one of the few that experienced it before it got too commercial. Ethiopia should definitely be everyone's next travel destination, and I can't
wait to see the rest....
Next destination - DUBAI!


























16 Comments:
Best blog posting ever?
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Tom Gara, at August 16, 2005 12:45 PM
Thea, you are amazing!
I feel like you will be a Saint someday........
'Patron Saint of Haram World Travelers'
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Kaitlin, at August 16, 2005 5:21 PM
ha ha ha!!! Kate I miss you!!!! You're going to be my next blog target!!!! I found a nice memory i want to blog about!! :D
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Thea, at August 16, 2005 5:56 PM
Hi Thea,
You are a natural at this. Excellent posts. You come across a geniuinely nice person. One thing I may suggest is to be careful not to get a one-dimentional image of Ethiopia by focussing too much on material poverty. As you know, Ethiopia is much, much more than that, like the french are much more than baguettes, berets and escargots, and the chinese than kung-fu and kun-pao chicken. The key question is how do Ethiopians see themselves?
Cheers,
Friendly ethiopian dude.
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Anonymous, at August 16, 2005 11:45 PM
thankyou Mr Anonymous, in my writing i focus on material poverty because that is the thing that impresses me most here. The thing is when i used to see these things on TV i always thought they were exaggerated and news always shows the worst.... but after seeing what i saw i realised it is not so... it is not exaggerated and it does not only exist in a tiny part of the country but all over!!!!
On the otherhand I love Ethiopian people, they are genuinely nice people with a warm heart and willing to make friends, help you and talk to you.
Regarding your question about how do Ethiopians see themselves, I guess it depends what class you come from and how open you are, whether you have left the country or not. The majority though don't have a high esteem of themselves. Most Ethiopians act as in the times of Colonisation..... though ironically enough they have never been colonised, they treat foreigners like kings and queens, they bow, act very humbly and sometimes are scared of foeigners - or more likely white people, which in my opinion is very sad, as they should not do this at all!!!
The above is my opinion, an opinion I've created by interacting with higher class people at work, as well as the poorest of the poor who have managed to get somewhere in life, as well as the poor who are still struggling....
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Thea, at August 17, 2005 1:32 PM
Hi Thea,
I see one of my friends(Hanna) in one of the pics you posted. Please pass my greetings to her. I have to tell you that you are in a good company.:-)
As far as your regular blog of what you came across in Ethiopia goes, I have a couple of comments to make. You seem to use the opportunity of visiting the country to realize what they show on TV vs the reality on the ground. I am sure you will learn a lot of things as you keep visiting around.
On the other hand, you seem to conclude that you now know Ethiopia , how the ethiopian people behave and why they behave like that. Sounds impressive but I very much doubt its reality. You even mentioned that majority(i say it again majority) of them have low self esteem just because you saw the kids gathering around you with deep respect and curiosity(don't forget you are a foreigner).
I am not really surprised by your comment as it is coming from a non ethiopian. This rather exposes you that you have not done your homeworks. That is, before running to make conclusions, u will need to check your facts, gather information from different people and never, never jump to making hasty generalization and wrong conclusion based on misguided perception. As curious as you are , i am also surprised why you have not asked questions like why do they act like the way they act? Why are they bowing down when they see foreigners and etc..Hey any ethiopian who was born and raised in that culture does that out of respect..yes, out of respect,sister! They do that for older people or for people with higher social or political status and for strangers like you. Nothing to do with low self esteem baby! Wake up! you are not in Malta now. Sorry if I have been hard on you..I just have to defend the facts.
yours sincerley
Fact Defender
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Anonymous, at August 17, 2005 5:18 PM
Hi Thea,
I see one of my friends(Hanna) in one of the pics you posted. Please pass my greetings to her. I have to tell you that you are in a good company.:-)
As far as your regular blog of what you came across in Ethiopia goes, I have a couple of comments to make. You seem to use the opportunity of visiting the country to realize what they show on TV vs the reality on the ground. I am sure you will learn a lot of things as you keep visiting around.
On the other hand, you seem to conclude that you now know Ethiopia , how the ethiopian people behave and why they behave like that. Sounds impressive but I very much doubt its reality. You even mentioned that majority(i say it again majority) of them have low self esteem just because you saw the kids gathering around you with deep respect and curiosity(don't forget you are a foreigner).
I am not really surprised by your comment as it is coming from a non ethiopian. This rather exposes you that you have not done your homeworks. That is, before running to make conclusions, u will need to check your facts, gather information from different people and never, never jump to making hasty generalization and wrong conclusion based on misguided perception. As curious as you are , i am also surprised why you have not asked questions like why do they act like the way they act? Why are they bowing down when they see foreigners and etc..Hey any ethiopian who was born and raised in that culture does that out of respect..yes, out of respect,sister! They do that for older people or for people with higher social or political status and for strangers like you. Nothing to do with low self esteem baby! Wake up! you are not in Malta now. Sorry if I have been hard on you..I just have to defend the facts.
yours sincerley
Fact Defender
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Anonymous, at August 17, 2005 5:19 PM
Hi Thea,
I see one of my friends(Hanna) in one of the pics you posted. Please pass my greetings to her. I have to tell you that you are in a good company.:-)
As far as your regular blog of what you came across in Ethiopia goes, I have a couple of comments to make. You seem to use the opportunity of visiting the country to realize what they show on TV vs the reality on the ground. I am sure you will learn a lot of things as you keep visiting around.
On the other hand, you seem to conclude that you now know Ethiopia , how the ethiopian people behave and why they behave like that. Sounds impressive but I very much doubt its reality. You even mentioned that majority(i say it again majority) of them have low self esteem just because you saw the kids gathering around you with deep respect and curiosity(don't forget you are a foreigner).
I am not really surprised by your comment as it is coming from a non ethiopian. This rather exposes you that you have not done your homeworks. That is, before running to make conclusions, u will need to check your facts, gather information from different people and never, never jump to making hasty generalization and wrong conclusion based on misguided perception. As curious as you are , i am also surprised why you have not asked questions like why do they act like the way they act? Why are they bowing down when they see foreigners and etc..Hey any ethiopian who was born and raised in that culture does that out of respect..yes, out of respect,sister! They do that for older people or for people with higher social or political status and for strangers like you. Nothing to do with low self esteem baby! Wake up! you are not in Malta now. Sorry if I have been hard on you..I just have to defend the facts.
peace,
Fact Defender
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Anonymous, at August 17, 2005 5:22 PM
Hey Thea,
This is Ethiopian friendly dude again. In general I agree with the core of “Fact Defender’s” comments, mainly regarding your conclusions about self-esteem. Ethiopian culture is extremely complex and impenetrable, even for foreigners who have lived there for decades let alone someone passing through briefly. One advice I would like to give (if you allow me to think of myself as someone endowed to bestow advice), not just with regards to Ethiopia but also as a general rule, is to avoid making socio-cultural conclusions/generalizations hastily. You should instead leave them as observations or hypotheses. As to their meaning, ask questions such as “why do Ethiopians bow etc... when greeting people/foreigners, could it be lack of self-esteem?” Obviously the next step is to explore alternative answers and eliminate them.
Bowing and portraying a humble image when greeting people, like in Japan for example, is a VERY VERY important cultural code in Ethiopia and it is expected in return. It has absolutely no connection to self-esteem. Usually foreigners are forgiven, as it is obvious they are not privy to the cultural codes. It is the norm to bow the head when greeting strangers, the elderly and people you respect (priests etc…). You would fall in the first category. Moreover, if you observe keenly, you will notice that Ethiopians bow to each other too when they greet, especially if any of the above criteria apply. In short, is not a pathological distortion---that is just how we salute (although the modern urban youth less and less so.)
Your speedy conclusion is akin to me going to Malta briefly and concluding that the Maltese are arrogant, rude and uncultured because they did not bow their head, act humbly or shake my hand with two of theirs. I have to first look at the Maltese cultural context and not use my own or any other pre-selected frame of reference.
Now back to my original question. You should get the answer from the horse’s mouth. The one you gave is YOUR interpretations based on misunderstood cultural observations. Ironically, one of the predominant characteristics of Ethiopians that is often the subject of foreigners’ ire or awe is an alleged excess of pride and nationalism. The collective Ethiopian identity has a tendency to think that there is God, Ethiopians and then the rest of humanity. This excessive feeling of cultural superiority is our blessing and curse at the same time. Test this theory and you’ll see what I mean.
Nevertheless, I understand that by definition, a blogspot is a place where an individual can express her opinions and inner thoughts without being submitted to rigorous socio-cultural analysis and deconstruction by pseudo social-scientists. Perhaps I suffer from excessive self-esteem.
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Anonymous, at August 18, 2005 12:31 AM
Out of curiosity, how long have you guys been out of Ethiopia?
And while in Ethiopia where did you guys visit?
Did you ever go into a tukul, speak to the people that live in there and drink their coffee??
That's all i want to know.....
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Thea, at August 18, 2005 9:11 AM
Hi Thea,
It's great reading your blog! Like everybody else seems to notice right away, you have a very engaging and open personality. I was last in Ethiopia for about 2 years but left in January 2005 (hopefully will be back soon -- I'm one of those diaspora Ethiopians, born and mostly raised in Ethiopia.) I just thought I would join the discussion because it is something I find fascinating.
In my experience, Ethiopians are far from obsequious. If you get into a conversation with an Ethiopian, please ask them how they think most Ethiopians view ferenjis (don’t personalize it but ask in a hypothetical manner). Unlike most of Africa, Ethiopians have a VERY, VERY high opinion of themselves -- their culture, history, beauty of the women, etc.
Compared to, say, Kenyan’s, it is safe to say that Ethiopians have a SUPERIORITY complex. This partly has to do with our history and culture. (Ironically, many Ethiopians also want to leave the land of their birth because they are attracted to the opportunities available in the West – education, a profession, higher incomes, etc.) Most Ethiopians show a great deal of respect to elders and guests, hence the bowing and handing things to you with two hands, etc. This should not be confused with feelings of inferiority. If you get the chance, ask an Ethiopian if she/he feels inferior or if Ethiopians in general feel inferior and you’ll get a very robust reply, if not a rebuke. Most Ethiopians(old and young) have a very high sense of themselves.
One more thing. Ethiopia is a very, very, very diverse country. Going from North to South, then East to West, highland to lowland, is like visiting different countries. As you probably know, there are differences of language, ethnicity, religion -- as well as mentality. In many ways, Ethiopia is a microcosm of Africa. The urban-rural divide is one I’ve come to really appreciate.
Just thought I’d drop my two cents into the bag. Otherwise, I hope you have blast in Ethiopia! I always do. I recommend going to Arba Minch if you can, as well as Harar – it’ll give you a taste of the diversity.
Keep painting and I’ll look forward to reading.
RTM
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RTM, at August 19, 2005 3:08 AM
Thanks Thea for remarkable stories! Once I grow up I want to become a "painter" just like You!
I whish I would be blessed with your linguistic capabilities:( It must be so rewarding to chat along with the people in their tukul's while drinking their coffee.
Btw do You have any good advice for financing the painting way of life?
All the best! And happy painting!
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Anonymous, at August 20, 2005 2:24 AM
Here we go! Yagere Lijoch Tenesu! I am proud of you guys!
Thea, look at the responses you get! This is typical Ethiopian character. We are humble, down to the earth, and extremely friendly people. But, if anybody mistakes that with inferiority, God be with him. Why don’t you try to enlighten yourself with Ethiopian History? I would recommend you read about King Theodros, (especially the comment he gave about white people who tried to undermine him), Alula, Zerayderes (you would be amazed by what he did in Rome) King Menelik and so many more…..
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Anonymous, at August 21, 2005 5:30 AM
Hey Thea, this is friendly Ethiopian dude again. I am a bit surprised by your questions (about how long we lived in ethiopia entered tukuls etc...)I was born & raised in Ethiopia and have travelled all over and seen all types of living-standards, even worse than what you described etc...But this has no bearing on the actual discussion on what explains bowing and humility when saluting. It appears to me that you may have not grasped how your reasoning is flawed. "These people are poor (live in tukuls etc...) they bowed their head and act humble when they salute me therefore the reason is lack of self-esteem and colonised-type behaviour. I don't care what kind of other explantions there could be for this. I know the answer." This is beyond a hasty conclusion, this is speed of light conclusion. I don't even want to raise issues with regards to the sampling you used to form your arguments/conclusions. It would be unfair to you.
But your question is not just curiosity, there are hidden assumptions and arguments behind it, at least that's how I perceive it. Your hidden (from you too perhaps) assumption is not quite, but is very close to an Ad-hominem argument, if we were to flush out what you could potentially be (and I think you are)insinuating. Basically, you are making the typical foreigner's dogmatic argument that any African or "third-worlder" who is expatriated is not a 'genuine' one thus his/her arguments or opinions are invalid. Or another version of it would be that middle class (or non-destitute)people from developing countries do not care about their co-citizens who are. This is the result of a major erroneous but very common equation of poverty as genuiness. If you are ultra-poor you are African, but if you have managed upward social mobility you are not a "real" one. This is one of the worst, always used, but never challenged false assupmtion. It is often used to close debates or differing opinons by questioning the "africanness etc.." of the person. This distorted logic, of course, ignores the "huge" contradiction within it. The african expat promptly loses his africanness despite being born there and remaining embedded in the culture etc...but the foreigner passing through can connect with the "african" and is able to describe its essence. I choose not to go further into this exchange as I doubt it may bear fruit. Examine the argument not the source. An argument will stand or fall on its own merit through thourough examination whoever the source.
Good luck and question everything.
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Anonymous, at August 31, 2005 1:15 AM
Hi, I was very impressed with your insights and descriptive passages concerning the various places in Lalibela. My name is Amaha HaileSelassie and I am a rising tour operator in Addis Ababa. Recently my family and I accquired the Seven Olives Hotel in Lalibela and I would be most intrested in corresponding with you regarding Ethiopia and tourism prospects. I feel you are the right person my goals to see tourism grow. My email is shebatour@yahoo.com and sevenoliveshotels@yahoo.com. I eagerly look forward to hearing from you.
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Amaha HaileSelassie, at October 17, 2005 7:55 PM
Hi, I was very impressed with your insights and descriptive passages concerning the various places in Lalibela. My name is Amaha HaileSelassie and I am a rising tour operator in Addis Ababa. Recently my family and I accquired the Seven Olives Hotel in Lalibela and I would be most intrested in corresponding with you regarding Ethiopia and tourism prospects. I feel you are the right person my goals to see tourism grow. My email is shebatour@yahoo.com and sevenoliveshotels@yahoo.com. I eagerly look forward to hearing from you.
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Amaha HaileSelassie, at October 17, 2005 7:56 PM
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